Earlier this month it was reported that Zolciak and Young had been dating for the past three months.
While she initially said she was still with on-and-off, already-married boyfriend "Big Poppa" when first questioned about her relationship with female deejay, Zolciak subsequently confirmed last week that she was in a relationship with Young.
However she told The Bert Show she's still involved with Big Poppa and things are over with Young -- also insinuating she's the one who leaked their relationship to the media.
"Only two people knew about [our tryst] -- whoever needed to run to the press with it, there you have it," said Zolciak.
"I said to her, 'Look, wow, settle on down. It's not good that we communicate. This has blown up like crazy and... I don't ever really wanna talk to you again. I don't appreciate all this stuff."
Zolciak and Young met last December when they worked together on a remix of her "Tardy for the Party."
"We spent a ton of time together. And, you know, things happen, that's it," said Zolciak.
"It didn't take a whole bottle of wine. I was clearly aware of what I was doing... I had a connection with her for sure. It is what it is."
In addition, Zolciak said she cut Young completely loose partly for her 13-year-old daughter Brielle.
"It's hard already in middle school... I'm comfortable talking about it. I'm not embarrassed or ashamed, [but] I have kids and a family," she explained.
"I adore [Young], she's a great girl... but there's not even going to be a friendship. There just can't be."
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