During the April 8 broadcast of Married at First Sight: Unfiltered, Katie watched back a Season 10 clip in which she told Derek he didn't make her feel special or take any initiative, physically, in their relationship during the couples' retreat.
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Pastor Cal then asked, however, if Katie found herself comparing Derek to a past lover or ex-boyfriend.
"No!" Katie exclaimed. "I was not comparing him."
"Ohh!" Jamie said, as if Pastor Cal had just caught Katie in a compromising situation.
"I had to ask. I had to ask," Pastor Cal noted.
"Of course everybody at home is going to think that because there's a lot of talk about the ex," Katie continued, referencing how the beginning of Married at First Sight's tenth season featured Katie choosing between marrying a stranger or taking an ex-boyfriend back.
Pastor Cal chimed in, "Listen, well then here's your chance to say whether or not [that's the case]."
"Yeah, I went into this not comparing Derek to anybody. I've had enough relationships, I've had enough intimate experiences that I don't need to compare," Katie said.
Katie loved seeing the adventurous, bad-boy side of Derek, and he said he was "turned on" by her playful energy and the fact she was trying to embrace her inner-child.
"I think Katie could be the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with, the person I want to madly love and never look back," Derek said in a confessional in the latest Married at First Sightepisode.
"So, I need to figure out how to reassure Katie that she should say, 'Yes,' [on Decision Day]. I want her to say, 'Yes.'"
Katie, however, wasn't sure Derek was the guy for her since they aren't very compatible and had developed more of a friendship than a romance. She seemed torn on whether to stay married come "Decision Day."
"I don't feel special at all... There is a giant emotional disconnect. As soon as I think I'm closing the gap, it shoots way open again," Katie explained to her father Dante.
Katie didn't think Derek knew how to express himself, and she called him "a boy" instead of a man.
Katie had been hoping for an older, more mature man waiting for her at the altar, but she said she got a baby-faced boy with a baby personality to match.