'90 Day Fiance': Matt drops a bomb on Jasmine, Kara decides Guillermo isn't her "person," Julia gets bad news
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Kara Bass tells Guillermo Castillo he isn't her 'person'
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Guillermo Castillo was trying to connect with his wife again by planning her a date with champagne and roses.
Guillermo said his goal was to have orgasms, and Kara Bass laughed. He was clearly trying to fix their relationship and win her trust back.
Kara said she missed the version of herself that was committed to a marriage and believed in it. She said she missed the couple's former "ride-or-die energy" and partnership.
"It's just been a lot, you know?" Kara cried to her estranged husband.
Kara complained about how Guillermo wasn't showing up for her or putting any effort into the marriage. Kara said she had dealt with motherhood and "postpartum stuff" alone, which sparked the demise of their relationship.
Guillermo claimed Kara didn't want to communicate with him after having a baby, but Kara explained how it was a hard transition and she felt like she was drowning.
Guillermo said Kara had "girls nights" all the time that made him uncomfortable and lose trust in her. But Kara clarified how she went out with other moms one night a month, and so Guillermo's complaint about that was insulting.
Kara owned up to maybe going out too much and speaking to Guillermo in a disrespectful manner, but she also called herself a "bad b-tch" who had stood by him.
Guillermo alleged that when Kara went out, she went to a club that had a DJ whom she had once hooked up with. Kara said this man helped her promote her music and they were genuine friends.
But Guillermo clearly wasn't okay with Kara staying out until 3AM with this man and going to his afterparties.
Kara insisted she had never stepped out on Guillermo, nor had she ever given him a reason not to trust her.
"It's not working!" Kara lamented. "What have I ever done for you not to trust me?!"
Guillermo said he had heard her talking flirtatiously with someone on the phone whom he didn't know. Kara thought that was a ridiculous accusation.
"Have you f-cked somebody else since we've been married?" Kara asked Guillermo.
"No," Guillermo replied.
Kara's mom thought Guillermo had cheated on Kara because he came home once looking messy and guilty. Kara's mom had also said Guillermo immediately hopped in the shower.
Kara wondered if Guillermo was projecting because he was the one who was up to no good.
Guillermo denied ever cheating, but Kara said Guillermo became unhappy after they welcomed their son Nico.
"I want it to be different. I think you're not my person. It's not that I don't love you or respect you as the father of my son. I just think we have two vastly different versions of how we got here," Kara explained to her husband in tears.
