90 Day Fiance: The Other Way: Tell-All Part 3 featured Sarper dropping a bombshell on Shekinah about his sexual past, Yohan yelling at Daniele to go to hell after being exposed, Holly deciding to return to South Africa to save her marriage, and Brandan and Mary revealing their toxic marriage dynamic during the Season 5 episode that aired Monday night on TLC.
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The show also starred Brandan, a 23-year-old from Oregon, and Mary, a 23-year-old from the Philippines; Holly, a 44-year-old from Utah, and Wayne, a 40-year-old from South Africa; Tejaswi or "TJ," a 33-year-old from India, and Kimberly, a 30-year-old from Alabama; Kirsten, a 24-year-old from the Netherlands, and Julio, a 27-year-old from New York; and Sarper, a 43-year-old from Turkey, and Shekinah, a 41-year-old from Los Angeles.
Daniele and Yohan originally appeared on 90 Day Fiance's Love in Paradise: The Caribbean before appearing on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fourth season.
Kenny and Armando previously starred on Season 2 and Season 3 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.
90 Day Fiance: The Other Way followed American citizens moving to or living in foreign countries for the sake of love and their future spouses and experiencing culture shock.
The Tell-All was hosted by Shaun Robinson.
Kirsten, Mary, Brandan, Yohan, Sarper, Armando and TJ all participated in the Tell-All via Zoom from their respective countries.
Below is what happened on Part 3 of the Tell-All special for 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fifth season.
HOLLY and WAYNE
Holly was shown walking offstage and crying, and Kenny decided to go after her and check on her.Kenny thought both Wayne and Holly needed emotional support and to have better communication considering they barely spoke on the phone for a three-week period.
"It's B-S. If my phone broke, I would find some way to talk to my husband," Kenny told Holly, adding how Wayne tried to act very masculine but he was probably pretty weak.
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOWBut Holly told Kenny that she still loved Wayne and wanted to be with him.
Holly then FaceTimed with Wayne, and he told her how things had "changed" between them and her emotional breakdowns were pretty "draining" for him to deal with so frequently.
Holly said she wanted to return to South Africa and be with Wayne again, but he noted how they had a lot to work on and talk about.
But with that being said, Wayne reminded Holly that she's his soul mate. And Holly acknowledged how she needed to be less sensitive.
"I love you so much," Holly told her husband.
"I love you, too," Wayne responded.
Holly said she just needed to look at things from Wayne's perspective in order to understand where he was coming from and why he had withdrawn from her for several weeks.
Wayne felt he looked like "an assh-le," but he said he had faith he could work things out with Holly and make their relationship good again.
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SHEKINAH and SARPER
Shekinah's friend Dan joined the Tell-All via Zoom. Shaun had announced Dan as Shekinah's ex-boyfriend, but Shekinah made it known they had just gone on several dates and were never officially in a relationship.Shekinah told Shaun that she and Dan had never been intimate or had sex, but then Dan argued, "That's not 100 percent true, but that's okay."
"Excuse me? That is actually 100 percent true," Shekinah said.
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Dan said he thinks he's a better match for Shekinah and he wished she would give him a chance, but Shekinah pointed out how she had already given him a chance and that time was up.
Dan confessed that he thought Sarper was a very controlling boyfriend, adding how Shekinah is beautiful and sweet just the way she is and Sarper shouldn't put her on the scale and judge every little thing about her appearance and body.
Dan told Sarper that Shekinah is his girlfriend -- not one of his clients -- but Sarper insisted that he knew Shekinah way better than Dan did. Sarper also proudly stated how Shekinah "loves to serve" and she's the Barbie to his Ken.
"Yeah, I love to serve him," Shekinah said. "I consider this is a healthy relationship. I don't feel like I'm being controlled."
Sarper added how the passion and love he and Shekinah felt for each other was out of this world and couldn't even be explained.
Sarper claimed he had slept with 2,500 women before committing to Shekinah, and the 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way cast wanted to know how that would be possible and if that large number was truly accurate.
Julio said over the course of 30 years, it would mean Sarper had slept with a different woman every three to four days. Daniele didn't think that was totally unreasonable given he was single for most of his adult life.
Shaun chimed in, "By our calculations, 2,500 women means you've had sex with a different woman every three-and-a-half days since your 18th birthday. Was that in fact the reality?"
"I'm not proud of that," Sarper said.
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When the cast asked to learn Shekinah's number of prior sexual partners, Sarper said he didn't want to know or hear about it. The cast thought Sarper would be hypocritical and label Shekinah a "whore" for her past.
Shekinah then revealed how Sarper has a bottle collection that she hated. Sarper apparently associated a memory with a woman with each bottle, but Sarper called them "trophies" and insisted his collection was just fun and not a big deal.
Daniele asked Sarper how he kept track of all his sexual encounters, and Sarper dubbed himself "a counting freak."
Sarper then dropped a bombshell on Shekinah that he had been hiding something from her. Sarper whipped out a notebook in which he had written down an "X" to represent each woman he had slept with.
The X's were even color coded to indicate which women were beautiful, according to the personal trainer.
Sarper turned the pages of his book on-camera, and Shekinah called the notebook "disgusting."
Shekinah alleged, "He literally was not picky. He'd sleep with anyone."
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Shekinah told Sarper that he needed to get rid of that book and his bottle collection or else she wouldn't see him again, especially because he'd never talk to her again if she had something similar in her possession.
When Holly told Shekinah that Sarper's book was disrespectful, Sarper told Shekinah, "Don't let them manipulate you."
Shekinah also said that she still wasn't willing to have a child and she wasn't going to budge on that decision. Sarper was clearly hoping Shekinah would change her mind, but Sarper announced how it was Shekinah's choice and he'd respect it.
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"We're just enjoying our relationship and getting to know each other more and more every day, and we have something really special," Shekinah said.
90 Day Fiance alum Andrei Castravet watched the Tell-All from the side of the stage, and he got in Shekinah and Sarper's faces and accused them of having a toxic relationship. The pair poked fun at Andrei for allegedly being the most toxic male in 90 Day Fiance history.
"Maybe we can meet in person," Sarper told Andrei.
"Great," Andrei said.
The women in the cast worried that Shekinah was being nitpicked and controlled, and when Shekinah denied that was the case, Kalani Faagata -- who was also watching the Tell-All offstage -- called Shekinah "delusional."
And Daniele griped at Shekinah, "You belittle everyone in the room... Everyone is stupid and toxic."
BRANDAN and MARY
Brandan and Mary's baby girl was one-month-old at the time of filming the Tell-All, and the couple revealed how the umbilical cord had been wrapped around the baby's neck three times when she was born.Mary had to have a c-section due to placenta previa, and she explained how she kept losing oxygen on the operating table.
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The night before her scheduled c-section, Mary wrote Brandan a goodbye letter, asking him to take care of Midnight and be a good father if she didn't survive the procedure.
After sharing their scary story, Mary shared how she was still in pain but was recovering nicely, and the pair gushed about how she looks just like Brandan.
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"He'll say words that will hurt me," Mary revealed.
"I do sometimes call her a scammer, like she's only happy when she has money, and that really upsets her... and I call her a b-tch. Most of the time when I get mad, I call her a b-tch," Brandan confessed.
Mary said she cried when Brandan said these things to her, but Brandan admitted he was trying to get a rise out of Mary so she would stand up for herself, fight back and not be so submissive.
Brandan was told that behavior -- calling a woman a name just to get a reaction out of her -- was pretty narcissistic, and Brandan agreed that's true.
"I'm surprised. I thought Brandan was an angel. I really did -- until now," Shekinah announced.
Daniele told Brandan to take the necessary steps so that he'd never verbally abuse his wife again, and then Brandan's mother Angela joined the conversation in-person.
Angela said Mary only lashed out at Brandan and threatened to breakup when she didn't have enough money.
Angela said she had given Brandan and Mary money, but the couple insisted their business was back up and running and making money again. The couple hoped they wouldn't need Angela's support in the future.
Angela also defended her son by saying that Mary sometimes thought Brandan was upset when he wasn't. Angela said Brandan sometimes walked off to calm down and compose his thoughts.
"He slammed the controller of his PS5!" Mary countered. "She doesn't know what's going on. I'm holding my baby and he's yelling at me!"
Angela shared with the 90 Day Fiance cast how both Brandan and Mary need therapy, both individually and as a couple. Angela explained how both Brandan and Mary were insecure and jealous, and she didn't want Mary to feel like she's not enough..
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Angela thought Mary was controlling and needed to work on her self-esteem, mainly to save and salvage Mary's relationship with other members of Brandan's family.
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The 90 Day Fiance cast also thought it was hypocritical of Mary to be posting sexy dancing content on social media when Brandan wasn't allowed to even look at other women.
Several members of the cast thought Mary was playing the victim and manipulating Brandan.
At the end of the Tell-All, Mary planned to go to therapy.
DANIELE and YOHAN
Daniele thought Yohan had spoken to -- and tried to get money from -- about 50 women, but Yohan denied that was the case.One of those alleged women, Memori, joined the chat via Zoom and claimed to have screenshot evidence that Yohan had messaged her and asked if she was married.
"To begin with, it was, 'Hey, how are you? What do you have going on?' Eventually, he told me that I need to visit the [Dominican Republic]," Memori alleged.
"He was like, 'You don't need to bring a friend. I'll show you anything that you need to see. You can just come here and see me... He had told me that he was single and going through a divorce, and that she was trying to take everything from him."
Yohan claimed he had no memory of talking to Memori because many women messaged him on social media and he'd say "hello" here or there.
Yohan repeated how he didn't remember ever talking that woman and she had probably reached out to him first, but Memori insisted he had sent her the first message.
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Daniele asked if he didn't remember Memori because he had messaged so many women saying the same thing.
"If she had been important to me, I would remember her," Daniele said.
"No women are important to you!" Daniele clapped back.
When Daniele told Memori that Yohan was still married, Memori said she shut down communication with Yohan and wanted nothing to do with him.
Daniele claimed at the last 90 Day Fiance Tell-All she and Yohan participated in, Yohan was allegedly seeing other women, including one of her own clients.
"They engaged in some type of relationship while she was at my retreat. He used his position in my business for his own sexual benefit," Daniele claimed, adding how Yohan had allegedly picked up a woman in her retreat van.
"He took her to, maybe or maybe not, my apartment. The second time, he engaged in a relationship with one of the women who was there."
Yohan announced how "of course" that wasn't true, but Daniele told everyone how she had proof, including a chat that was on Yohan's computer as well as an apology letter from the woman herself.
Daniele was convinced that Yohan had a physical relationship with her client, especially because there were times when Yohan wouldn't return home at a time when she was expecting him.
Yohan said he went to Daniele's retreat to help her and so she was acting very ungrateful.
"To hell, my lady, you can go to hell with your lies," Yohan shouted. "You want to be bad, I'll be bad to you... I told her that I was not unfaithful to her. I wish I had been unfaithful. I was good to you."
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Daniele announced how Yohan was just angry because she had gone public with his betrayal, and she started to cry. Daniele begged Yohan to just be honest for once in his life, but then he called her "a manipulator" and said no one was going to believe her crocodile tears.
The entire 90 Day Fiance cast, however, told Daniele that they believed her.
"No, I never cheated -- but I should have," Yohan said.
Yohan said if he had invaded Daniele's personal files, chats and social-media pages, he'd probably find a lot of dirt on her as well.
Yohan refused to admit any infidelity on his part, and he accused Daniele of judging him and creating stories in her mind. When asked if all of those women were lying, Yohan clapped back, "Which women? Where are they?"
Daniele reminded Yohan that she had evidence of his romantic pursuits in order to protect herself from his denials, and the 90 Day Fiance cast determined that Yohan was a player who had used Daniele for money.
"Who wants someone to suffer? What a f-cking psycho," Daniele cried.
"It won't be for long, don't worry. I wish I could have all the money tomorrow [to divorce you]," Yohan said. "I know what I did."
Daniele felt relieved that everything was out in the open and her marriage was over. She said nothing was going to tie her down and that she was going to live for herself.
In addition, Daniele was going to end whatever friendship she had left with Yohan.
KIMBERLY and TJ
Kimberly said she wouldn't back down from a fight with Jenny Slatten.ADVERTISEMENT
"TJ means the world to me. But if I went back to India today, I would be very sad, honestly," Kimberly confessed in tears.
"At this point, I don't know if I can count TJ in my plans for the future. So I'd like him to be there, theoretically, but realistically, I don't know where to put him."
Kimberly said she didn't know what her relationship with TJ was going to look like, but at the end of the day, she wanted it.
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