90 Day Fiance couple Lisa and Usman are getting to know each other in Nigeria on Season 4 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, but jealousy and other issues may stand in their way of happiness. So is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together or did they break up? And did they ever get married?
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[90 Day Fiance Spoilers Warning: This article contains spoilers revealing whether Usman and Lisa are still together and if the 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days couple has married].
Lisa, a 52-year-old hospice caregiver from York, PA, and Usman "SojaBoy," a 30-year-old rapper from Nigeria, are one of the couples starring on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' fourth season, which premiered late last month on TLC.RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOW: WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? WHERE ARE THEY KNOW? (PHOTOS)
Lisa, who previously divorced an unfaithful and verbally-abusive man, said leaving the marriage was the best thing for her and her 15-year-old daughter, whom Lisa said she worked hard to support financially.
Lisa said Usman, an entertainer in Nigeria who has over 20,000 followers on Instagram, had contacted her on Facebook two years prior to when filming started and they videochatted immediately so Usman could prove he wasn't a catfish.
Lisa didn't understand why a Nigerian celebrity would be interested in her, but a love song he had allegedly written for Lisa confirmed his feelings for her, at least in Lisa's mind.
It didn't take long for Lisa to fall for Usman, and so she planned a trip to Nigeria so she could meet him in person. Not only was it going to mark her first time to Nigeria, but the trip was going to be her first time out of the United States.
Lisa said their relationship was built on trust but she had an issue with the "thirsty" women who followed him on social media.
Lisa didn't like women constantly reaching out to and calling Usman. She therefore asked him to tighten up his social-media profiles after seeing some flirty comments had been left by fans, such as heart emojis. (It appears Lisa has something in common with fellow 90 Day Fiance star Angela Deem!)
Lisa revealed Usman had already proposed marriage to her and so they planned to wed once she traveled to Nigeria and then apply for a spousal visa so Usman could move to the United States.
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Lisa was warned Usman would tell her anything she wanted to hear in order to come to America and receive a Green Card, but Lisa believed otherwise.
"I feel like this is an opportunity for me to have a love that I have never experienced in my life," Lisa gushed.
RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOW"But the one thing I am worried about are his female fans, and I need to make sure he has been faithful to me. But I won't know until I travel to Nigeria and see him face to face."
In the second episode of the series, Usman promised Lisa that he loved her and she shouldn't worry about his fans, but she knew the temptation for him to cheat was always there.
Usman told Lisa they could hold hands in public but not in his family's house since he's Muslim. Lisa, a Christian, admitted her biggest fear was Usman's mother not giving her a blessing to wed.
Usman said his mother feared Lisa was taking him to the United States so he could be a slave, which appeared to shock Lisa, but Usman was certain his mother would accept her and grow to love her as well.
Lisa asked Usman to be by her side 24 hours a day once she arrived in Nigeria. She expected them to have quality time, with none of his friends around to steal the attention she wanted from her man.
"If my life is one week [or] one month with this man, I've lived a full life," Lisa told her friends before she left America.
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Lisa's friends were worried about her safety in Nigeria and being kidnapped or something along those lines, but Lisa gushed, "If I die in Nigeria, I'll die a happy woman because I'll be with the man I love."
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"He's absolutely the man of my dreams. If this is a scam, it's going to break my heart and I will not recover from it," Lisa said in a confessional.
In Episode 3 of the series, Lisa was shown flying over to Nigeria to meet her 30-year-old fiance.
Usman lived with his two friends in one room but said he was very successful in the music industry.
Before Lisa's arrival, Usman went to hang out with a couple of friends, and he said his dream is to become the king of hip-hop and R&B in America. Usman had hopes to take over the world with his music.
Usman's friends were surprised to see a photo of Lisa because of her age, but Usman said age didn't matter and there's more to beauty than what's on the outside. Usman told his friends Lisa is 49 years old, and they were absolutely shocked.
Usman's pal Joseph wanted Usman to focus on music, especially in light of the fact Usman had said Lisa was a very jealous woman. Usman did admit Lisa made his career more difficult because Lisa spoke to his fans whenever he posted something on social media.
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"I just have to try to tolerate her," Usman said in a confessional, before telling his pals he had already decided to be with Lisa forever and always.
When Lisa arrived, Usman had a hotel room ready for her, complete with roses and a stuffed bear. He said he was very excited and nervous, noting it was rare to have a white woman travel to Nigeria for a man.
Usman brought his two roommates along for the trip and hoped that wouldn't be a problem for Lisa. He also said if he didn't find himself attracted to Lisa, there was going to be a big issue.
When the pair reunited in the airport, they hugged and kissed. Usman told the cameras he was "in heaven" and in "paradise," holding his love, and Lisa expressed how Usman was even more handsome in person. She called him "so damn hot."
Usman admitted Lisa had "a bit more belly" than he was expecting. He said he would've liked her to have a bigger chest with a little waist and big hips, but he said Lisa had a big heart and that's what mattered most.
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However, Lisa said Usman wasn't paying much attention to her once they got in a car, and she hoped he wasn't going to break any more promises he had made her. After traveling 20-plus hours, she wanted a romantic night with Usman, and his friends were hindering that for her.
Once Lisa and Usman made it to the hotel, Lisa kicked his friends out -- and Usman had no problem with that. The couple got settled into a nice room, and the romance began once she saw Usman had roses for her.
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"Are you looking forward to sex with Lisa?" a producer asked Usman.
"Umm, despite the fact she's not the kind of woman I am attracted to, she still has the lady's part and I still have the guy's part, so it's going to be cook -- groovy, cruising. Oh my God!" Usman replied.
Lisa was more than ready to introduce "the sexual part" into their relationship since she claimed they had established every other aspect of a relationship already.
In the latest episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Lisa and Usman woke up next to each other for the first time in Nigeria after "making love."
Lisa said one thing had led to the next and it happened, but she admitted there was "a big cultural difference" when it comes to making love -- "American vs. "Nigerian."
Lisa explained she had to teach Usman how to have oral sex because he didn't even know what it was. Meanwhile, Usman said Lisa was "70 percent good" in bed out of the 100 percent he had been expecting, but he noted that was good enough for him.
Lisa confirmed she and Usman had decided against using a condom and it was his first time having unprotected sex. Usman told Lisa he "loved it" without protection.
Usman's friends didn't think Usman would disobey his mother if she didn't like Lisa and demanded they not proceed with a wedding, so Lisa began to worry about whether she'd be able to win her future mother-in-law over.
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Lisa realized Usman had lied to her because he originally insisted his mother's opinion wouldn't affect their relationship going forward. Now that Lisa was in Nigeria, Usman had changed his tune and revealed they absolutely needed permission from his mother to go through with a wedding.
Lisa acknowledged Usman's mother might stand in their way of a lifetime of happiness.
Before meeting Usman's mom, Usman drove Lisa three hours to Kaduna, a big city in Nigeria, where he actually lived and worked in the music industry.
On the drive over, Lisa didn't appreciate people blowing up Usman's phone all the time, and Usman pointed out she's "very jealous" and "even more controlling in person." Usman claimed he didn't even know who was calling him at one point.
When Lisa discovered Usman bathed with a bucket and had a toilet that swiveled, she thanked God they were staying in a hotel.
Usman spoke to his friends about how he needed to address Lisa's attitude because he didn't want her to do anything that might jeopardize his career or relationship with co-workers.
So did Lisa and Usman break up or are they still together? Did the 90 Day Fiance couple get married?
Lisa and Usman not only are still a couple, but they are reportedly married!Photos of what appeared to be Lisa and Usman's wedding ceremony leaked online last year by Starcasm.
One picture appeared to show the couple holding their Nigerian marriage certificate.
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Lisa reportedly chose not to wear any makeup on her wedding day at Usman's request, and Lisa changed her name to Usman's mother's name when she got married.
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Usman also shared a post on Facebook in December 2019 that showed a screenshot of a text message Lisa had sent him in which she talked about converting to Islam, Starcasm reported.
"Wasn't for your mom or anyone in our lives, not even you," Lisa allegedly wrote, "this was a decision that I made for myself."
Lisa reportedly received her fair share of backlash on social media after revealing she's married to Usman, but it doesn't really seem to phase her!
Lisa is clearly a feisty woman who brushes insults right off her back.
When one fan reportedly wrote to Lisa, "I wish you were faithful tho," she reportedly replied, "What do you mean my husband is faithful to me. Keep moving."
Lisa then went off at the online troll and, according to Starcasm, wrote, "She is a typical Nigerian b*tch an ppl from my husband area wonder why he married a WHITE AMERICAN WOMAN. FACT STANDS I AM A GOOD WOMAN SO LET MY HATERS COME @USMAN SERIOUSLY ILL F**KING MAKE HER CRY."
The commenter continued to allege Usman had been "f-cking around" on her, advising Lisa to get checked for sexual transmitted diseases.
"Jealous much b*tch? Get in line to kiss my white a**," Lisa reportedly responded.
"You mad bc I married Usman Sojaboy no wonder Nigerian men are choosing to marry anyone but a Nigerian woman like you."
In addition to being a musician, Usman is also reportedly an actor in Nigeria.
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