90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days featured Ximena Morales Cuellar and Mike Berk getting engaged during his first trip to see her in Colombia, so do 90 Day Fiance spoilers reveal that the couple is still together now or have they broken up? And did they ever get married?

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[90 Day Fiance Spoiler Warning: This report features spoilers about the current status of Mike and Ximena's relationship and if the 90 Day Fiance couple called it quits or are still engaged or married].


On Season 5 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Mike, a 34-year-old IT support technician and volunteer firefighter from Thiells, NY, revealed how he had met Ximena, a 24-year-old from Pereira, Colombia, on a dating app after being single for 20 years or so.

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Mike hadn't been in a serious relationship since high school and he wanted to find a woman with whom to settle down.

When Mike saw Ximena, he thought she was "the most beautiful woman in the world." The pair went on to communicate for about a year.

"She's the first person I truly feel like I fell in love with, and we even went as far as talking about getting married and having kids together. We have that connection, both mentally and emotionally," Mike revealed.

However, there was a language barrier between them since Mike only spoke a little Spanish and Ximena only spoke Spanish.

Regardless, Mike said he couldn't stand to be apart from Ximena any longer and so he had booked a ticket to Colombia and couldn't wait to hold her and be with her in person.

Mike dreamt of Ximena and her two sons, Harold, 3, and Juan, 9, moving in with him in the United States. (Mike lived with his father and grandfather at the time). He gushed about really wanting to "go for it" and start a family.

"This relationship seems like it's too good to be true, but at the end of the day, I know this is real and it makes me happy. So I'm just going to go with it," Mike acknowledged.

Mike then packed his belongings, as well as an engagement ring, for a two-week trip to Colombia. Mike said if he discovered Ximena had been using him the whole time, his heart would be broken.

Prior to Mike's arrival, Ximena shared how she lived in Pereira in Colombia with her two boys and being a mother was her joy and main priority.

"Juan's dad was a one-night stand, and that was it," Ximena revealed. "And Harold's dad is in jail. He wanted to defend his uncle and acted without thinking, and so that's what he's paying for now."

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Since Harold's dad was going to be locked up for a long time, Ximena said she wanted to find another man who could support her and love her.

Ximena was also struggling financially as a manicurist amid COVID-19. Mike had therefore been sending her money for a couch, dining table, refrigerator, stove, blender, coffee maker and more. Mike had also been sending her money for food and rent.

"I stay afloat with what Mike contributes to me," Ximena said. "But Mike is not the kind of guy I'm usually attracted to because I like big men. My ex-boyfriends have been policemen, tattoo artists, farmers, even drug dealers."

Ximena admitted that she didn't find Mike physically attractive but she was attracted to his heart.

When Ximena and Mike met at the airport for the first time, Ximena claimed their kissing wasn't passionate. She also watched Mike struggle when trying to talk to her extended family.

But Mike said his first night with Ximena in bed was "the best time" he's ever had with a woman.

"Ximena knocked it out of the park. We had a great time over and over again," Mike said.

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Ximena, however, said the sex was just "normal" for her and "nothing out of this world."

Ximena later broke Mike's heart by telling him that she couldn't have any more children.

"I suffered a lot with my two deliveries because to have a child Caesarean is the worst pain a mother could go through," Ximena explained in a confessional. "So I decided to get operated [on] and they cut my tubes and burned them, so that I definitely couldn't have more kids."

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Mike wished he had been told this sooner because he didn't like having secrets between them, and he called the news "devastating."

"I didn't think that I'd meet you. It's not my fault," Ximena said.

Ximena told Mike that Juan and Harold never had a father before and he could be their dad. She suggested how Mike leaving them would really hurt and upset her sons.

"Forgive me for not being able to give you a child," Ximena requested.

"It's okay," Mike responded. "We can raise Harold and Juan together."

After choosing to stay together, Mike booked a romantic getaway so he could get to know Ximena better and they could have some privacy as well as deep conversation.

When the couple sat in a hot tub together outside of their villa, Ximena opened up about her past "crazy" relationships with "aggressive partners" -- and she once lived with a hitman who claimed to be a tattoo artist!

"He ordered to have me killed. Well, he had me locked up," Ximena revealed.

Ximena said the man threatened to kill her, and Mike became worried for Ximena's life as well as his own. Mike found this information alarming but chose not to hold Ximena's past against her.

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While Mike had his own issues to overcome with Ximena, Ximena was also growing increasingly more annoyed with Mike.

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"He is super, super gross," Ximena admitted.

"He throws clothes everywhere like a kid. He'll let out a fart in front of me. And he burps on top of you. So it's like, 'Oh no!' It's funny but infuriating at the same time... Can you imagine three or four years from now?! It's crazy."

Ximena told Mike that he needed to correct his bad habits and change if they were going to spend the rest of their lives together.

"It disgusts me. That makes me fall out of love," Ximena shared with Mike. "The truth is that I'm disappointed about all of those things."

Mike agreed to work on his issues but felt a little hurt by Ximena's nitpicking. She clearly considered him to be "a slob."

"If we get married, I don't want a messy husband with no manners. That's not the future I want," Ximena complained to the cameras.

Mike explained to Ximena how he was diagnosed with ADHD in middle school, which affects his concentration and focus and makes him distracted.

Ximena said she felt better knowing Mike had a good reason for behaving the way he did.

Later on, Mike received a blessing from Ximena's father, Jamir, to propose marriage. Jamir understood that Mike was going to take care of Ximena's children like they're his own and be a good husband.

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Mike then popped the question during a nice dinner out with Ximena and her close family members.

Ximena gushed to her family about how Mike is a very loving and tender man, but she also worried about rushing into a marriage that should be forever.

However, if Ximena ended her relationship with Mike, she'd also no longer have a way to pay for her apartment and would need to start working again. Ximena also pointed out how her sons would receive a better education in the U.S. and Mike could provide them with a better life.

Ximena therefore agreed to marry Mike and cried tears of joy because he's "sweet, kind and very loving."

"He's won the affection of my family and my kids," Ximena shared. "So why would I say no?"

Mike said Ximena had made all of his dreams come true, and he was thrilled to be getting "an instant family."

It then became time for Mike to leave Colombia, but he planned to return in a couple of months. Mike said he had to go back to work but hated the idea of leaving only hours after proposing.

Mike intended to marry Ximena during his next visit to Colombia, apply for a visa and then move Ximena and her sons to New York, and Ximena said she was excited about starting a life with Mike in the United States.

"I can't put into words how much I will miss her," Mike said.

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Ximena then gave Mike a necklace to solidify their love, and he promised that he would come back. Mike had found happiness with Ximena, and he said he trusted her wholeheartedly.

Mike just hoped he and his new fiancee wouldn't grow apart.

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So what's the latest on Mike and Ximena's relationship? Is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together and engaged now or have they broken up?


Mike and Ximena appeared to still be together and engaged in early January 2022.

Ximena posted two videos on her TikTok account -- which have since been deleted -- indicating she and Mike were an item at the time.

In the first of two videos Ximena posted that no longer appear on her TikTok account, she showed a picture of Mike holding a ring box as well as her wearing an off-the-shoulder sparkly wedding dress.

"I love you my life. Thank you for so much happiness," Ximena wrote in Spanish, according to Soap Dirt.

In the second video, Ximena shared a picture of another wedding dress hanging up as well as a ring box by itself.

She simply captioned the post, when translated from Spanish to English, "Marry me!"

But on February 17, Ximena posted a new video featuring an entirely different guy!

Ximena was apparently showing off her new boyfriend, indicating that she and Mike have recently broken up.

Ximena quickly deleted the video of this mystery man, presumably because 90 Day Fiance producers saw the spoiler material -- which indicates she's no longer engaged to Mike -- and asked her to take it down.

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The video, however, was captured by @90shotzfired and later reposted by 90 Fiance blogger John Yates.

In the video, Ximena spliced together clips of her FaceTiming with the man, and she also included some solo shots of this bearded man. Ximena set the video to the same romantic song she had once in one of her previous TikTok videos that featured Mike.

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Shortly after Ximena took down her post, she apparently messaged @90shotzfired on Instagram and tried to explain why her recent video of a mystery man was not a spoiler about whether she and Mike are still together.

But John believes Ximena is just trying to cover her tracks and she's clearly not dating Mike anymore.

John wrote on his Instagram account, "I'm sorry but I'm not buying ANY of this -- if I were Judge Judy I'd say BOLOGNA MADAM! First off she messages Shotz with every excuse in the book -- 'someone stole my account', then the 'video is fake', then 'this was before I met Mike' then it was 'someone stole my phone' -- well WHICH EXCUSE IT IT?"

Mike proceeded to comment on all the drama on Instagram when a fan asked him if he's okay.

"I am fine and just shocked [at] what I am seeing," Mike responded.

But John also criticized Mike's reaction to Ximena's alleged new boyfriend.

"Then you have Mike saying 'I'm so shocked' GTFOH," John complained.

"I have been blogging about this show for a looooong time and here's what happened: Ximena posted the new video of her man on her TikTok... production caught wind of it and told her to take it down but it was too late as the floodgate had already been opened. The end. #90DayFiance."

John also reposted a picture @90shotzfired had uploaded from Ximena's TikTok video. The screenshot shows one of Ximena's FaceTime conversations with her new guy took place in February 2022.

"Sure Ximena, this video was from the past," John captioned the screengrab, clearly calling her out for lying. "The past being 10 days ago. Maybe the dog ate your homework."

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About The Author: Elizabeth Kwiatkowski
Elizabeth Kwiatkowski is Associate Editor of Reality TV World and has been covering the reality TV genre for more than a decade.