90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's Tell-All featured Shekinah revealing she cut off her family over Sarper, Kimberly and Jenny Slatten having a heated confrontation, Daniele bringing "receipts" to the Tell-All about Yohan, and Julio accusing Kirsten of cheating during the Season 5 episode that aired Monday night on TLC.
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The show also stars Brandan, a 23-year-old from Oregon, and Mary, a 23-year-old from the Philippines; Holly, a 44-year-old from Utah, and Wayne, a 40-year-old from South Africa; Tejaswi or "TJ," a 33-year-old from India, and Kimberly, a 30-year-old from Alabama; Kirsten, a 24-year-old from the Netherlands, and Julio, a 27-year-old from New York; and Sarper, a 43-year-old from Turkey, and Shekinah, a 41-year-old from Los Angeles.
Daniele and Yohan originally appeared on 90 Day Fiance's Love in Paradise: The Caribbean before appearing on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fourth season.
Kenny and Armando previously starred on Season 2 and Season 3 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.
90 Day Fiance: The Other Way followed American citizens moving to or living in foreign countries for the sake of love and their future spouses and experiencing culture shock.
The Tell-All was hosted by Shaun Robinson.
Kirsten, Mary, Brandan, Yohan, Sarper, Armando and TJ all participated in the Tell-All via Zoom from their respective countries.
Below is what happened on Part 1 of the Tell-All special for 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fifth season.
JULIO and KIRSTEN
Julio said he and Kristen hadn't spoken since their breakup and he was seeing "lies" on social media."Things aren't always as they seem. I'm just waiting for my turn to speak. I'm ready!" Julio told the 90 Day Fiance cameras backstage.
Shekinah told Julio backstage at the Tell-All that he had been really mean and harsh to Kirsten, but Julio said he had been trying to protect her.
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"There were things I kept secret that I really didn't want to speak on with our relationship," Julio announced, adding how Kirsten had done something bad that he chose not to share with others.
Julio admitted he was "excited" to finally let those things out and clear the air.
Kirsten said that when she saw Julio, she no longer had feelings of hate for him. However, she pointed out how she had no feelings at all for him anymore.
Julio admitted he had probably misled Kirsten but it was more about maintaining hope that things could get better.
"I didn't really trust her," Julio admitted.
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When Sarper asked Julio if Kirsten had cheated on him, Julio put the ball in Kirsten's court. Kirsten confessed she had a good friend whom she had been texting and Julio didn't like it.
Julio announced that he thought Kirsten had cheated on him. Julio said Kirsten went dress shopping once and she had taken photos with a man, an alleged friend.
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Kirsten insisted that this guy was just her friend and Julio was trying to make himself look better.
Julio, going back to his story, claimed Kirsten locked herself in the bathroom and deleted the conversation. At that time, Julio recorded Kirsten's conversation with the man.
"I did nothing with him. I didn't even kiss him," Kirsten alleged. "I didn't delete a conversation."
A producer then brought Julio his phone, and Julio said he had recorded a conversation with Kirsten in which he had asked her about her alleged affair.
"I don't think she knows that I was recording her," Julio said. (This segment ended on a cliffhanger).
HOLLY and WAYNE
Holly said she wasn't sure where she stood with Wayne. She found their situation "upsetting and confusing."Holly looked forward to trauma bonding with her 90 Day Fiance co-stars.
Kenny thought Holly is a sweet and naive person who would get taken advantage of easily.
Shekinah said Holly needed to face her issues head on and stop running away from her problems.
Holly had been back in the United States for a whopping four months, and Wayne admitted being apart from Holly wasn't fun and they had lost a bit of contact.
SHEKINAH and SARPER
Shekinah said she loved her life back in Turkey and really missed Sarper when they're apart. She said while Sarper was probably going to receive criticism about his sex life, they weren't the ones sleeping with him.Shekinah came to the Tell-All prepared to call out toxic relationships and put people on the spot.
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"Yes it is for her," responded Sarper, who has claimed he had slept with 2,500 women before getting involved with Shekinah.
"And for me of course. It's the first relationship for me."
Sarper revealed that Shekinah had asked him to get an STD test before they began dating and he obliged. Shekinah said she had requested that from all of her exes, and then Sarper snapped at her not to talk about the men in her past.
"But you can talk about the 2,500 women," Kenny declared, calling out Sarper for hypocrisy.
Shekinah told Shaun how she realized that Sarper looked like a controlling assh-le on the show.
Sarper insisted that he loved Shekinah's body but he's a control freak and wanted her to eat whatever he wanted her to eat.
"He's excited to have somebody that's submissive," Shekinah said, adding how Sarper told her how to behave, how to look and what to eat via voice notes when they couldn't be together.
Tim Malcolm, who was watching the Tell-All from the side of the stage, thought Shekinah sounded "brainwashed," but Shekinah insisted that Sarper delivered his demands and messages in a loving and sweet way.
"It's all good advice. It's not anything unreasonable," Shekinah said.
When asked if she viewed Sarper's behavior as toxic at all, Shekinah said that Sarper was always nice to her and she viewed him as her leader. Sarper also said that Shekinah liked to be controlled.
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Daniele said the couple clearly liked each other's toxic traits, which is why they got along so well. But Kenny and other co-stars thought Sarper was manipulating and grooming her.
Shekinah then revealed she had a falling out with her family over Sarper.
Shekinah's sister Shariyah said in a video message that Sarper had no respect for Shekinah -- or other women -- and that he's not an honest person. As Shariyah spoke, Shekinah asked Shaun to shut it off.
Shekinah called her sister "a b-tch" and said, "My relationship with her is done. My family is so negative. They could not be more unsupportive, and I actually [haven't] talked to anyone in my family since the show.... There are six sisters and my mom. I don't talk to my mom."
Tania Maduro, who was watching the Tell-All with Malcolm, said everyone needs a support system, and Kenny agreed that cutting off one's family is a really big deal.
KIMBERLY and TJ
Kimberly voiced how marriage, and living in India, had been a huge adjustment for her."Nobody told me how much marriage sucks -- and it does," Kimberly vented.
"Living with TJ's family is just as you'd expect. I don't think they care to understand my perspective. I'm sure people will call me 'spoiled' or 'untitled.' I will definitely let them know that their opinions are not welcome."
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Kimberly said she loved being back in the United States, and Daniele could see why Kimberly's life in India was hard given she's an independent woman and TJ expected her to live "like a servant."
Kimberly was still living in the apartment above TJ's parents, and TJ said Kimberly often overreacted in their relationship, especially when she complained about his construction efforts once she first moved to India.
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"In his traditions, he only vows to tell me about property and financial decisions after marriage," Kimberly said, admitting TJ could've been in even more debt without her knowing.
Joining the cast remotely from India were Jenny Slatten and Sumit Singh.
Jenny said Kimberly seemed unappreciative of everything and what she got in India was amazing to her.
"Her saying, 'I hate India,' that broke my heart," Jenny announced.
"Your opinion doesn't matter to me," Kimberly said.
Jenny asked Kimberly to respect India or leave, and then Kimberly replied, "I don't want to, darling."
"I am not your darling, okay? Keep your ass in America... You are very entitled and a spoiled brat," Jenny said.
While Jenny spoke, Kimberly laughed out loud and then she called Jenny a "c-nt."
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Jenny asked Kimberly to visit her in Jaipur, and then Kimberly clapped back, "Come on, baby, I'll give you my address!"
Kimberly didn't think she had been disrespectful to India culture, but Jenny said the way she spoke to TJ -- including her screams -- was absolutely with disrespect.
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Kimberly argued that she and TJ were still learning about each other and were naturally going to have bumps in the road.
Jenny dubbed Kimberly "horrible," and then Kimberly explained how she had called TJ a "t-tty baby" before because he's so attached to his mother.
Kimberly claimed that when she and TJ fought, he'd stay downstairs with his mother. At one point, Kimberly said TJ went 72 hours without talking to her.
"She puts herself in these situations and then she's playing the victim," Shekinah announced.
Kimberly acknowledged if she could do things over again, she'd do things differently. And Jenny reiterated how Kimberly needed to lose her "out of control" attitude.
When Shekinah told Kimberly that she needed to treat others with more respect, Kimberly told the cameras that Shekinah could go "f-ck herself."
DANIELE and YOHAN
Ever since Yohan told Daniele that he wanted a divorce, her life had been a "complete roller coaster."Daniele shared how the Tell-All was going to be about "vindication" for her. Daniele called Yohan "a piece of sh-t" and noted how everybody was about to find out her side of the story and exactly "who he is."
Daniele arrived at the Tell-All with "receipts" and said she was going to confront him with all of it.
"He has no idea what he's in for," Daniele told the 90 Day Fiance cameras backstage.
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Daniele revealed to Kenny backstage that she was still living in the Dominican Republic, and Shekinah said that Daniele probably just liked Yohan for how he looked and for the size of his penis.
"I think she went into that relationship looking to change Yohan and that she kind of manhandled him," Shekinah said in a confessional.
Once onstage with her co-stars and Shaun, Daniele announced that she and Yohan were still separated.
KENNY and ARMANDO
Kenny said he and Armando had an announcement to make and some people might respond, "What the hell are you thinking?!" Kenny, however, said he didn't care what people thought about him.Once the pair joined their co-stars onstage with Shaun, Armando revealed he and Kenny had officially moved to Mexico City.
MARY and BRANDAN
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