90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days featured Jasmine dumping Gino over alarming discoveries, Caleb breaking up with Alina, Mike and Ximena getting engaged, Ben realizing he may have been catfished, and Memphis asking Hamza to sign a prenuptial agreement that "humiliated" him during the fifth-season episode Sunday night on TLC.

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' new season stars Usman "SojaBoy" Umar, a 32-year-old from Sokoto, Nigeria, and Kim Menzies, a 50-year-old from San Diego, CA; Caleb, a 28-year-old from Chandler, AZ, and Alina, a 27-year-old from Saint Petersburg, Russia; and Gino, a 51-year-old from Canton, MI, and Jasmine, a 34-year-old from Panama City, Panama.

The series also stars Memphis, a 34-year-old from Muskegon, MI, and Hamza, a 28-year-old from Kairouan, Tunisia; Mike, a 34-year-old from Thiells, NY, and Ximena, a 24-year-old from Pereira, Colombia; Ella, a 29-year-old from Idaho Falls, ID, and Johnny, a 34-year-old from Jinan, China; Ben, a 52-year-old from Fraser, MI, and Mahogany, a 24-year-old from San Bartolo, Peru.


Usman was previously married to Lisa Hamme, 54, whom he had met on Facebook two years before filming 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' fourth season.

Lisa struggled to trust Usman during their relationship and they split in May 2020. Usman later served Lisa with divorce papers in December 2020 and Lisa has since remarried with a childhood friend.

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days will follow long-distance relationships and document how each couple found each other as well as their first in-person meeting in a foreign country "and the countless surprises, drama and culture clashes along the way."

In most 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days cases, lovebirds are hoping to get engaged and begin the K-1 Visa process.

After traveling across the world, the couples will determine if love can conquer all as they experience challenges such as language barriers, interfering families, cultural differences, age gaps, ex partners, and "shady pasts," according to TLC.

Below is what happened on the ninth episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days' fifth season:


Jasmine asked Gino if he had ever sent naked pictures of her to his ex, but Gino promised Jasmine he would never do that and that never happened.

Jasmine therefore asked Gino to explain how his ex had gotten a hold of one of her naked picture, a picture she had allegedly sent to Gino only. Jasmine insisted she had never released or sent anyone else nude photos of herself.

Jasmine started to cry and asked Gino to be honest, and he admitted to sending the topless photo to his ex in order to rub in her face how beautiful his new girlfriend is.

"I was showing her, 'Look how hot my girlfriend is,'" Gino explained, before telling the cameras he had sought "revenge" on his ex by bragging about Jasmine.

Jasmine said she had trusted Gino with her nudes and would never be able to trust him again. She walked away from him bawling her eyes out, and Gino wished he could take his actions back.


Gino's ex also sent Jasmine an alleged screenshot of a conversation she had with Gino in which he had been making fun of Jasmine, writing, "She goes crazy if I mention anything about ex's. She gets super jealous if I even mention a woman's name."

Gino added, "Haha she is napping right now lol," clearly showing how Gino had been texting his ex while Jasmine napped in bed right next to him.

"Oh ok, so you're talking to me behind her back then," Gino's ex noted in the screenshot.

Jasmine called Gino's behavior "very low" and said she was "done" with him and would never forgive him. However, Jasmine decided to confront Gino first and hopefully cause him pain.

Jasmine therefore stormed into their hotel room and screamed at Gino, "Shut your f-cking mouth!"

Jasmine yelled at Gino for texting his ex behind her back and embarrassing her, and she called him depressing and "sick." She said she couldn't live with his "level of stupidity" and then called Gino "a loser."

Jasmine proceeded to throw the electric toothbrush Gino had gifted her out of their hotel room.

Jasmine told Gino that he had just lost the only person she loved him.

"His messages with his ex reveal a part of Gino that I just find disgusting," Jasmine told the cameras. "There were also some other screengrabs that she sent me from a few years ago."

Gino allegedly bragged about treating his "SBs" or sugarbabies well by giving them $200-250 "per meet," but Gino said he hadn't done that in a long time. Regardless, Jasmine said it was disgusting Gino, "an old man," would have to pay for sex and company.

"I am not interested in a man like that!" Jasmine shouted.

Gino admitted to the cameras he had paid a couple of women to go out to dinner with him and he realized it wasn't a good way to find true love. Gino said Jasmine had the wrong impression of him from those texts.

Jasmine screamed at Gino, saying she's intelligent and hardworking and didn't need to be a man's sugarbaby.

"Thank God I took that birth control! Imagine me being pregnant by the sick person that you are?!" Jasmine yelled. "This is the last f-cking time you will see me in your damn life. And I thought my ex was bad! That was just an appetizer!"


Gino scolded Jasmine for not being able to talk in a civil or rational manner, and then she shouted at the top of her lungs, "I hate you! You broke my f-cking heart!"

Jasmine said she would eventually find true love because "the good ones always succeed."


After spending a week-and-a-half in Colombia, Mike invited Ximena out to a romantic dinner with a view of the entire city. He decorated their table with balloons and planned to present Ximena with an engagement ring once a cake would be brought out.

Mike also invited Ximena's family out to dinner because he knew how important everyone is to her. He also wanted to prove his love for Ximena and how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her.

Ximena could see how much she meant to Mike, but she was nervous and a bit hesitant about the idea of getting to engaged to Mike after knowing him in-person for such a short amount of time.

Mike said although he's not perfect, he wanted to be the best version of himself for Ximena, who could see minor changes in her boyfriend already and the fact he was trying really hard.

Mike then stood up at the table and called Ximena his "other half," adding, "I love your children as if they were mine," referring to Harold, 3, and Juan David, 9.

Mike announced how he only cared about Ximena and their family and how she kept him "tidy" and he loved her very much. A server then brought out a cake that read, "Ximena, do you want to marry me?"

Ximena started to cry after seeing the diamond ring in a box on the cake.

"Will you marry me?" Mike asked.

"Yes, yes I want to marry you," Ximena replied with a smile.

Ximena said she had questioned a future with Mike due to his bad habits but when she saw the cake and his beautiful words, she felt like her heart was going to "burst" out of her chest and she remembered why she loved Mike -- because he's "sweet, kind and very loving."

"He's won the affection of my family and my kids," Ximena shared. "So why would I say no?"


Ximena's loved ones cried tears of joy, and Mike said Ximena had made all of his dreams come true. Mike was thrilled to be getting "an instant family," and Harold and Juan both appeared very excited.

Even Ximena's father was happy, knowing Mike took his relationship with Ximena very seriously and would probably follow through on his promises.

Ximena was super emotional after the marriage proposal, and Mike said he felt like the luckiest man in the world to have Ximena by his side.

It then became time for Mike to leave Colombia, but he planned to return in a couple of months. Mike said he had to go back to work but hated the idea of leaving only hours after proposing.

Mike intended to marry Ximena during his next visit to Colombia, apply for a visa and then move Ximena and her sons to New York, and Ximena said she was excited about starting a life with Mike in the United States.

Ximena was sad about Mike having to leave and wished they could stay together and get married immediately, but that just wasn't the case. Mike even said he was tempted to cancel his flight to stay with his family.

"I can't put into words how much I will miss her," Mike said.

Ximena then gave Mike a necklace to solidify their love, and he promised that he would come back. Mike had found happiness with Ximena, and he said he trusted her wholeheartedly.

Mike just hoped he and his new fiancee wouldn't grow apart.


Mahogany was a no-show at the airport in Lima, Peru, and Ben was shown working out in the gym the next morning after hearing nothing from his girlfriend at all. He said he very disappointed, betrayed, angry, sad and "very, very discouraged."

Ben wrote Mahogany a poem called "Runaway Train" hoping to receive a text in reply. He thought they had been on the same page considering they had begun planning a future together, including welcoming children, and so he didn't know what to do.

Ben's friends wondered if Ben was being catfished, especially since it had happened to him once before, but he believed in his love with Mahogany "so hard."

"The real difference is that I never really connected on a cerebral and emotional and even spiritual level the way that I have with Mahogany. This person knows me intimately and I feel like I know this person. And she's just scared," Ben said.

Ben believed God was a part of his relationship, and so he decided to go to San Bartolo, where Mahogany allegedly lives. Ben planned to wait for Mahogany at a restaurant in her town so they could pursue their romance further, but he wasn't sure she would meet him.

"I haven't given up on love yet. I'm tempted to. I don't know how much more rejection I can take, but I've only got a couple weeks in Peru, so time is of the essence," Ben explained.


After 24 hours in Peru, Ben was holding out hope he's see Mahogany that night in San Bartolo.

Ben texted Mahogany to meet him at a restaurant in San Bartolo, and then Ben suddenly received a text in reply that read, "San Bartolo is very distant from Lima." He didn't know what she had meant by that, but Ben was happy to just receive a response.

Regardless of Mahogany's text, Ben asked her to meet him at the restaurant at 8PM.

Ben waited for about 45 minutes at the restaurant, and Mahogany didn't show up or answer any of his texts. He was starting to lose hope and realize his friends may have been right, that he had been set up by a catfish and may look like a fool to his loved ones.


Caleb and Alina were shown going to a romantic dinner together in Turkey when they only had a few days left together. Caleb wished they could extend their trip to continue feeling each other out, but Alina wanted answers about their future together right away.

Alina felt she had been patient with Caleb, and while she respected him needing some time, she said, "It's not going to work, this excuse, anymore."

Caleb was going to return to the United States and Alina was going to return to Russia, and she was afraid of becoming just friends again. Alina wondered if Caleb didn't care about her enough to become her boyfriend.

"You are just very vague about me, about us, and about what's going to be after we leave Turkey," Alina told her man. "I just want to know if you are open -- even open -- to be exclusive or not... I can't go back home without an answer."

Caleb said the idea of being exclusive felt "a little soon" since "a lot of unknowns" still lingered.

Caleb seemed a little scared of commitment, but he said Alina it was about finding the right person with whom to settle down and he was trying to assess that in Alina.

Caleb explained how he'd like to experience what life is like with Alina more before agreeing to be exclusive. Caleb felt a commitment was being "forced" on him, but Alina said she had been asking Caleb for an answer their entire trip.

"It's out of respect for you that I'm taking my time. You have needs that must be met. You need someone who's going to pay attention and help you," Caleb explained. "I don't want to take that lightly."

Caleb wanted to make sure he could be the man that Alina really needs in terms of being her aide.  Alina thought Caleb was trying to say that he feared he wouldn't be good enough for her, which she called "bullsh-t," but Caleb said that's not what he was trying to say.

Caleb determined that he needed more time before making Alina his girlfriend and he wished she could wait a little longer. Alina said she couldn't go back to the way things had been before.


"Yes or no?" Alina questioned.

"I don't think there's anything more to talk about right now," Caleb replied.

Alina said it hurt that Caleb still didn't know whether he wanted to be with her or not. Alina was certain that she wanted to be with Caleb, and so she told the cameras, "I feel played."

Alina subsequently complained to Caleb about how he didn't love her, but he said he couldn't give her an answer right away.

"She wants it to be a 'yes,' but I just can't give her that 'yes' right now. She is forcing an answer and so she is creating a 'no' for herself," Caleb said in a confessional.

"But there's the reality maybe I go home and I should've said 'yes' and I really miss her. I just don't know what to do."

Once the pair returned to their hotel room, Alina asked Caleb to sleep on the couch.

The next day, Caleb and Alina enjoyed a boat ride together and tried to make the most of their last day together, even though Caleb felt like he was walking on eggshells. Caleb assured Alina that he wasn't wasting her time, but Alina felt upset that Caleb didn't seem "crazy" about her.

"How long do I wait?" Alina asked in frustration, adding in a confessional how she'd be able to wait if Caleb could promise her something certain and defined.

Alina was concerned she and Caleb were on "a road to nowhere."

Caleb eventually admitted to Alina that he needed more time because he wasn't used to dating little people and he did stumble across some "challenges" due to their height difference. Caleb was also used to an independent, bachelor lifestyle.

"I don't know if the life I want for myself is one of helping someone so much, because my life has been so different from that," Caleb confessed.

Alina felt "disappointed" and "heartbroken" over Caleb's explanation, and she was tired of men not committing to her because she needs too much help.

"I thought you were different," Alina lamented.

"I thought I was! I didn't think this would be a problem, but the reality is the struggle I'm facing," Caleb admitted. "I don't know what to say beyond that."

Caleb insisted he really cared about Alina and had been trying, but he just couldn't commit to her.

"I really didn't want to hurt you. Please believe me," Caleb said.

Alina believed that Caleb was afraid of change and taking a big leap in his life. She had been hoping for something different and a much better outcome.

The couple then packed up their belongings, and Caleb said they were "breaking up in a sense" since he couldn't commit to Alina. Caleb said he never imagined his trip would end this way.


Alina felt like she was losing her boyfriend and her best friend, and neither she or Caleb knew what was going to happen down the road. Caleb wished he had opened up his heart to Alina sooner and actually let her in.

The pair then said goodbye at the airport, and Caleb said he hoped they'd see each other again. Caleb made Alina promise that she wouldn't disappear, but she just responded, "I will try."


Memphis had been in Tunisia for about a week, and she and Hamza planned to go to the embassy to receive their approval documents so they could get married the following week. The pair therefore slept in a hotel room together, and they both drank alcohol the night prior and slept in the same bed.

"The first time that Hamza and I had sex, it was very fast and furious," Memphis revealed.

"But I really feel so much more relieved because he did perform for me last night. He definitely showed me that he can do what he needs to do to satisfy me, so I was very happy."

Hamza set out to prove to Memphis he can be a very responsible and organized person, and then the couple went out to lunch together.

After eating their meals, Memphis broached the topic of getting a prenuptial agreement so that if she and Hamza ever got a divorce, he wouldn't be able to take any of her money.

"Why you no trust me?" Hamza asked.

"It f-cking happens! People split up!" Memphis explained.

"Me no divorce," Hamza responded. "Why problem?"

"No, you don't know. You may change your mind," Memphis said.

Memphis was concerned Hamza had lied about his age, and she wasn't sure if he had been lying about other things as well. Memphis therefore felt the need to protect herself going into this marriage.

Memphis said she wanted to feel safe and make sure her children would be protected if Hamza chose to divorce her. Memphis blurted out, "If you do not sign the contract, I do not want to marry you."

Hamza said he's never heard of a prenup before and they don't exist in Tunisia. He apparently felt "insulted" since a marriage should be built on trust and respect.

"Your possessions do not mean anything to me," Hamza insisted.

"Good! But will you sign papers?" Memphis asked.

"Okay," Hamza replied, although he felt very uneasy and noticed new problems kept popping up for his relationship.

Hamza didn't want Memphis to think he's a greedy man who would use her, and so their prenup conversation was still bothering her.

Once Memphis received the paperwork -- an affidavit of eligibility to marry -- she admitted that she was feeling nervous and scared because she really wanted their marriage to work. The couple was able to get the ball rolling on their wedding, but she felt frustrated by Hamza's quiet demeanor.

Memphis could tell that Hamza was frustrated about something, but he wouldn't open up about how he was feeling.

Memphis asked Hamza if he had any money saved for their wedding, and he replied, "No."

Memphis wanted their finances to be 50/50 in America, with Hamza working hard, and Hamza asked her to stop talking about negative things. Hamza said he felt humiliated and Memphis was making him feel "weak."

Hamza began wondering if he could spend the rest of his life with a woman who was able to hurt him so badly.


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