"We haven't been intimacy in months now. More than four months," Girardi toldStar magazine in an interview conducted "hours" before she moved out of the former couple's Los Angeles apartment and left Pavelka a goodbye letter.
"At first his excuse was that he was fasting. The second excuse was that he didn't feel like it. And the third excuse was that he said that he felt that I wouldn't understand that he wants to wait until marriage, even though I told him I'd support him," she said in the interview, which appears in the magazine's July 5 issue.
"Then the last excuse was that we fight so much that I push him away. I was like, really -- which excuse is it? I literally have been living six months with this guy who won't be intimate with me!"
According to Girardi, she was "just bawling the entire time" she wrote the letter.
Pavelka and Girardi issued a statement late Monday night confirming their split after Greek actor Gregory Michael said she told him her engagement to Pavelka was off when they met at the Children's Hospital of Orange County Oncology Prom near Los Angeles on Saturday and the pair were subsequently seen kissing at a public beach party event in Santa Monica on Sunday.
It was later reported Pavelka that initiated the split because he felt Girardi was cheating with Michael.
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In her interview, Girardi supported her stepmom's claim that the couple split because they "didn't have a romantic relationship."
"He kisses me only if we're on a red carpet or if cameras are there," Girardi told Star.
"Besides that, I have to ask for a kiss -- and if I do he'll pucker his lips and just peck me. I'm like, that's how I kiss my grandmother!"