90 Day Fiance couple Tania Maduro and Syngin Colchester said they weren't sure of their relationship status on Part 1 of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?'s Season 5 Tell-All event, so did the couple break up once and for all or are Tania and Syngin still together?
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[90 Day Fiance Spoilers Warning: This report contains spoilers revealing if Tania and Syngin have split and are divorcing or if the 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After? couple is still together and married now].
Tania and Syngin starred on Season 7 of 90 Day Fiance, which featured Syngin moving to the United States on a K-1 visa after he and Tania fell for each other in South Africa.RELATED LINK: '90 DAY FIANCE' COUPLES NOW: WHERE ARE THEY NOW? WHO IS STILL TOGETHER? WHO HAS SPLIT? (PHOTOS)
The couple tried their best to get to know each other in just 90 days before getting married, and there were certainly some obstacles they had to overcome.
Tania, for example, said she wanted to have a baby within three years and continue "pumping them out" afterwards, but Syngin said he'd like to travel and have fun first. Syngin apparently had no issue waiting 7-10 years to become a dad.
Syngin also didn't like how Tania was always in control of him and their relationship. He missed his freedom and being able to do whatever he wanted.
"It's almost like you wrote the story and I'm just a character in it," complained Syngin, a self-declared free spirit.
The couple also fought while Tania studied natural medicine and remedies in Costa Rica for three weeks. Tania didn't feel the need to call and check-in with Syngin after nights of partying with her friends and said she needed "breathing room."
But Syngin felt "abandoned" and thought Tania owed it to him to at least let him know she was safe and sound.
Once Tania returned home, she expressed frustration over Syngin not pursuing any of his goals and dreams, such as becoming a woodworker or firefighter.
And Syngin nearly ended the relationship when Tania confessed she didn't view Syngin as her soul mate.
The revelation stressed Syngin out and made him question whether he and Tania were truly compatible, but Tania apologized and convinced Syngin that he was the only man she wanted.
The couple therefore went through with a wedding in Connecticut by renting an Air BnB for the venue. They symbolically connected their love through matching tattoos of the Sagittarius symbol instead of rings to represent travel in their relationship.
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On Season 5 of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?, Tania and Syngin moved out of Tania's mother's she-shed and into a house of their own after Tania hurt her foot in a car accident.
Since Tania was unable to bartend due to her injury, Syngin's work permit was expedited so he could work and provide for them. Syngin, however, wasn't able to secure a job at a local Irish pub.
To make matters worse, Tania felt like she was married to "two different people."
Tania told her friend that half of Syngin acted like an adult ready for responsibility and the other half was a party animal without a care in the world.
Tania's patience was wearing thin and she believed her marriage had become stagnant, while Syngin confessed he was feeling "pressure" and "a little suffocated" over the couple's finances and Tania's expectations of him.
"I didn't come here to make my life here... I just don't think America is where I want to raise kids... I don't know why. It's a great country and everything is awesome, but I just don't feel it's going to work here," Tania told his wife at dinner one night.
Tania said she wanted to make a one to three-year plan with Syngin and start a new chapter, but Syngin admitted he wasn't totally ready to be committed and "tied down" or "stuck" with children too early in life.
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Syngin and Tania then traveled to South Africa to visit with his brother Dylan, who was recovering from a life-threatening blood clot.
Before heading to the airport, Tania told Syngin that she didn't want to see him party hard with his friends and get drunk in South Africa, but Syngin told her not to worry about him or fight with him in front of his friends.
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The couple bickered before their trip, and Syngin admitted they can say "mean" things to each other sometimes which makes a situation "really toxic."
Syngin and Tania then reunited with Syngin's loved ones, and Syngin gushed in a confessional, "It feels like I'm coming home; it feels like I never left."
Tania was apparently annoyed and a little worried Syngin was so excited. Tania worried Syngin being with his family in South Africa might persuade him to move back to his native country and leave her.
Syngin admitted to his mother and sister that there was tension in his marriage and he and Tania were just very "different people."
"I want to just make each other happy... I don't want to waste any more time," he noted.
Syngin didn't want to stay with Tania for two more years just to break up at that point, especially since he said they weren't living "the perfect life."
Syngin then met up with the roommates, Andrew and James, he had while living in South Africa, and the three guys celebrated Syngin's return with beers, shots and more.
Syngin said he and Tania had good sex but argued a lot and he "could be happier" in or out of the relationship.
"I'm having a lot of fun right now -- so much f-cking fun I might never go home. I love this f-cking country dude," Syngin told his friends.
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Syngin told his loved ones that he'd love to have land and raise a family in South Africa. Syngin said he realized he was missing out on life in South Africa when he had a fun night out with his friends.
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Tania explained to Syngin's loved ones that she didn't want to raise a family in South Africa because of the poverty and racism, and Tania said she wanted her kids to grow up with people from so many different cultures and backgrounds.
"If we're going to have kids..." Tania began.
"Kids? Who said that's ever going to happen?" Syngin asked.
Tania rolled her eyes and asked Syngin to "bring it down a notch." She said Syngin was well aware children were a part of her plan even before they got married and so it wasn't okay for him to flip a switch like that.
"America's not my f-cking dream," Syngin noted.
Tania said it was unfair for Syngin to have married her if he didn't plan on staying in America.
"Yes, I can understand it being hard and him being homesick, but I can't understand no steps being taken. I just don't want empty promises... I need to start seeing action," Tania told the cameras.
Tania started to cry at the dinner table and said Syngin had "no direction" and she was not feeling heard or appreciated.
Syngin said he never wanted to feel belittled and he's simply a laidback procrastinator.
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Once things calmed down and the pair went to a winery, Tania told Syngin that she wanted to work on things and not struggle for the next 10 years.
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Syngin said he wanted to work on having a "healthy" marriage, but he said if times got worse, he believed it would be best to end the marriage and go their separate ways.
Tania acknowledged Syngin knew what she wanted and needed, and so it was up to him to change and make things happen.
"I threw out my plans when I met Syngin, and I'm ready to get back to my plans," Tania said in a confessional. "I really need to do some thinking."
Before flying back to America, Syngin told Tania that he didn't regret marrying her but they had so many things to work on and he wasn't happy in their relationship. He thought they were running out of time and patience for each other.
"It's going to be tough for me to get on a plane and fly back to Connecticut," Syngin admitted. "It's the way I feel."
Tania said it broke her heart to hear Syngin might want to stay in South Africa and she cried to the cameras about her husband's confusion.
"But I want to go there and work on these problems together," Syngin noted.
"I know I can't sit there and wait forever for change from someone who says they love me. I can't and I won't wait," Tania said.
Syngin confessed that he needed to change and wanted to carry on their marriage, and Tania replied, "I believe in us. I want to create a plan with you and a life with you, and that's all that matters."
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"I'm happy he's choosing to come home with me and get to real work," Tania told the cameras, adding that she was going to work on her patience and anxiety.
"I'm going to do whatever I need to do, get a job and make money, just to keep our relationship happy," Syngin said.
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But in the teaser trailer for an upcoming part of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?'s Season 5 Tell-All special, Syngin and Tania hinted they might be talking about getting divorced.
And during Part 1 of the Tell-All, which aired on September 27, Tania and Syngin didn't seem to be in a good place.
Tania said as much as she loved Syngin, she needed to look out for herself. She assumed the topic of children would be brought up at the Tell-All but that was something she and her husband still needed to discuss and work out.
"I feel like we may be struggling to have those conversations because we aren't even sure about us as a couple yet," Tania noted.
So did Syngin and Tania split and go their separate ways or is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together and working things out?
Tania and Syngin are definitely still married and together despite appearing to be on the edge of a breakup on Season 5 of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?.The couple's ongoing relationship is evident on social media.
In late September, Tania uploaded a photo with Syngin when they were traveling and said they'd participate in a 15 minute virtual sip and chat with the winner of a fundraising effort to pay the fines of 700,000 Floridians who want to vote.
On September 24, Syngin posted three photos with Tania in which they were both wearing matching T-shirts for Pitbull Awareness Month, which is in October.
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In late August, Tania captioned a slideshow of many photos with Syngin and tagged their location as North-South Lake Campground.
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The pair were all smiles as they cooked food at a campfire and took in some beautiful views on a cliff.
"Camping trip with my lover. Such an amazing, beautiful, and fun time! With my foot still not back to 100% I'm So greatful there were easy and short hikes with breathtaking views. #LoveLife #NatureLover #TravelWithT #travelwithme #stateparks #90dayfiance #TaniaandSyngin #campinglife #campinggear," Tania captioned her slideshow.
Earlier that month, Tania posted a selfie of her driving with Syngin in the car, following by a sweet photo of the couple posing in each other's arms.
"Lovin life by his side," Tania captioned the photo, clearly giving away they are still married. "#90dayfiance #taniaandsyngin #lovinlife #naturelovers."
Going back to July, Tania posted a photo of herself cuddling up to Syngin in a pool. While the photo was an ad intended to sell sunglasses, it appears the photo was taken this summer, and she added the hashtag "#taniaandsyngin" to the post.
Tania also made it clear Syngin is still her husband on July 7 when discussing their upcoming one-year wedding anniversary.
Along with a throwback photo from their wedding, Tania wrote in the caption, "Our wedding aired last night in #Italy. Fitting because @syngin_colchester and I are looking into options for our 1 year anniversary celebration."
"Tag below your favorite hotel, bed & breakfast, Inn, glamping, Yurt, tree house, orday boat rentals in New England... #90dayfiance #90dayhappilyeverafter #anniversary #newenglandfineliving #airbnb #taniaandsyngin #travelwithme #TravelWithT #TravelWithTania #newengland #beachrental #lakehouserental," she added.
And on that same day, Tania revealed she and Syngin went out for pizza and will "def be going" to the same place again.
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In a June 21 interview with Entertainment Tonight, Syngin said he and Tania were "doing well," and Tania shared they're still living in Connecticut "in our new place."
"We are both in a good place of mind and have a good mindset," Syngin said after he and Tania both declined to confirm flat out whether they're still together.
"We're doing good!... We are quarantining together," Tania added.
As the interview progressed, Tania let down her guard a little bit more and dropped major hints she and Syngin are still a married couple.
"I definitely know our souls were destined to cross paths... Do I see myself with you forever? I do! And do I see you being the father of my children? I do! And do I see us being old and cranky together waiting for kids to come home on the bus? I do," Tania gushed.
"If relationships were built only on love, we'd have the best relationship ever. But we're two individual people with our own habits, likes, dislikes, minds and thoughts. And if we can blend all of that together, then we'll see."
On the topic of having kids, Tania said she'd like to start planning for the future but doesn't want to pressure Syngin to have babies at the same time.
"I'd like to plan that with my husband," Tania said, confirming she's still Syngin's wife.
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The couple has documented their love for each other and fun outings dating back months and month.
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And Tania posted a picture with Syngin on May 25 in which they were camping and dubbed themselves "nature lovers."
"After being here for a day, walking around some, no one recognized us and felt kinda good. Then.. late at night we hear 'Good night Tania and Syngin!' We just laughed yelled back good night {insert random names}! So weird, random, and dont think we'll ever get used to it," Tania captioned the picture.
Three days earlier, Syngin teased the couple's upcoming appearance on 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?'s fifth season, hinting they're still in love by writing hashtags such as "#crazylove" and "#sexycouple."
"To all the ups and downs and to the next round hahaha. Here we go season 5 of happily ever after, or is it happily ever after. Are you ready???" Syngin wrote.
"I can tell you that there has been a lot of changes and soooo much has happend, its kinda crazy so stay tuned to see what happens..14th of june 8pm ET... #crazylove #gingerhair #goodtimes #filming #couples #sexycouple #instagood #love."
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And going all the way back to late February, Tania shared photos from their wedding with a caption that seemingly came straight from her heart.
"The day my human and I said 'I do.' From other lives to this life, I'm so happy our spirits met. I'm excited to explore this realm and planet with you in these human bodies," Tania gushed.
"You have brought me so much joy and laughter, adventures and memories, and I couldnt be more greatful for the wonder of it all. I love you alot alot."
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