90 Day Fiance couple Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi just got into an explosive fight in which Angela said she's "done" with Michael and their relationship is over on Season 6 of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?, so was she really finished with him? Have Angela and Michael divorced or are they still together, and what do the latest 90 Day Fiance spoilers reveal about their relationship now?

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[90 Day Fiance Spoiler Warning: This report includes spoilers revealing if Angela and Michael are still together now or if the 90 Day Fiance couple has split up.]

Angela, a 53-year-old nursing assistant from Hazlehurst, GA, and Michael, a 31-year-old from Lagos, Nigeria, met each other online.

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The couple met face to face for the first time when Angela decided to travel to Nigeria, but her loved ones were worried Michael was trying to scam her for money or an eventual Green Card.

While getting to know one another better, Angela struggled with the couple's age difference and her jealousy and trust issues. The pair broke up and made up multiple times after explosive arguments.

However, Angela applied for a K-1 visa anyway, which unfortunately resulted in a denial.

Angela there caved into having a wedding in Nigeria although she had desperately wanted to wed in front of her family in America.

The couple tied the knot on Season 5 of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?, and then Angela was able to apply for a K-3 spousal visa instead. Angela and Michael anticipated the visa would take 9-18 months to be approved.

Angela also planned to have a second wedding in the United States once Michael arrived in America.

But another problem still lingered after the wedding: Michael desperately wants a biological child and Angela was told giving birth would be a serious risk to her health and she has no eggs.

And Michael also seemed to assume Angela would take on the traditional housewife role like the typical Nigerian wife -- cooking and cleaning the home -- but Angela refused that lifestyle.

Seven months after their wedding, Angela, weighing 273 pounds at the time, decided to undergo weight-loss surgery against Michael's wishes.

"Michael is still going to be as young as he looked the day I married him. So if I'm not young, I need to at least look the damn part and it starts with my weight," Angela explained on Season 6 of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?.

Michael explained in a confessional that he liked Angela the way she was, her curvy body and all, and the idea of pushing back their timeline on having a child upset him.

"If Angela decided not to have kids at all, I think I will have to divorce her. That makes me feel so sad and upset because I love her so much," Michael told the cameras.

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Angela then met with a handsome plastic surgeon, Dr. Michael Obeng, whom she flirted with at her consultation, and it was recommended to Angela that she have a breast reduction as well.

"My family is already worried to death about just the weight-loss surgery. Now I've got to tell them that I've got more news for them, and oh God, it seems like it never ends," Angela lamented in a confessional.

Prior to her surgery, Angela FaceTimed Michael from her hotel room in California and revealed her surgeon from Ghana had "medically handled" and "examined" her breasts during a consultation, which resulted in her decision to also undergo a breast reduction.

Michael seemed very unhappy with the news, and Angela complained that Michael seemed more worried about her losing her big boobs "to play with" than he was worried about her breathing and overall health.

Michael was then shown meeting up with his brother Yekini, one of Michael's 16 siblings, and Michael shared how Nigerian men value big boobs and Angela's chest is one of the things that initially attracted him to Angela.

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Michael also feared Angela would become skinny and beautiful and then attract other men and potentially cheat on him.

Angela then underwent her one-hour weight-loss surgery followed by a three-hour breast reduction and lift. Angela prayed all of the preparation and recovery would be worth it.

Dr. Obeng apparently took out about two pounds of breast and gave Angela a perky Double-D chest.

When Michael saw Angela's new body for the first time over videochat, he seemed upset and displeased that her chest size was so much smaller. Michael's reaction really got to Angela and disappointed her.

Angela was already feeling insecure about the new size of her breasts and wished Michael would reassure her that everything was going to be fine. She wanted her husband to build her confidence up and support her.

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"He made me feel worse. I shouldn't have to worry about my husband thinking I'm deformed... He should love me no matter what," Angela complained.

Angela appeared to be mentally and physically exhausted after her surgery, and she told the cameras that even strong women can reach "a breaking point."

Upon learning about Angela's desire to have a facelift, Michael appeared shocked and yelled, "I don't like this! I don't like it!" Michael even hung up the call on his wife, which really angered Angela.

"If you do the facelift now, I don't support you," Michael said, adding that he wanted to make decisions together with his wife. "I am putting my foot down. She is not doing any more surgeries."

But Angela told the cameras that she was going to do whatever she wanted to her body.

The procedure was going to cost $25,000, which made Michael's jaw drop to the floor because he hoped to use that money to try to have a baby.

Angela didn't think Michael had the right to complain about the money given she had financially supported their relationship since the start.

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Angela questioned whether Michael was going to divorce her over this, but he said that was not his intention.

When Angela's appointment day arrived for her facelift, her surgeon postponed the surgery because she had been smoking.

"Michael will be happy my facelift is canceled, possibly for good. What he doesn't realize is if I don't get this surgery, my turkey wattle is going to hang down [far] and I'm going to look older than I am. Is that what he wants?" Angela questioned.

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Angela said Michael never checked on her or reached out. She didn't think her husband cared about her, and Angela complained about Michael slacking and not supporting her through her recovery from surgery.

"I guess I'm going to have to continue doing things on my own, because Michael is not supporting me at all. I don't need to man, hell -- never have and never will," Angela lamented.

Meanwhile, Michael's aunt Lydia called Angela "very selfish" and "crazy" for planning to spend so much money on a facelift. Michael's relatives questioned Angela's priorities because Michael clearly still wanted to have a baby and IVF would probably be expensive.

Michael admitted he was giving Angela the silent treatment because she wasn't listening to him and was making big decisions without his input or approval. Michael wished they could act as one body and one mind.

"After the surgery, all Angela and I do is fight, fight, fight. At this point, I don't know if I'll ever be happy being married to Angela," Michael confessed.

And all the fighting wasn't helpful in Angela's journey to try to quit smoking either.

Angela said it was hard to quit the habit with "no emotional support" from Michael, who allegedly ignored Angela's phone calls.

"He's stressing me the hell out. He's not calling me and checking up on me, so it definitely makes me want to smoke more," Angela said in a confessional.

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Angela didn't think she could accomplish anything without Michael being by her side emotionally.

Angela then visited a hypnotist to try to quit smoking. The hypnosis apparently worked for a little while but Angela's stressful relationship with Michael got her back into the habit again.

Angela said Michael essentially "disappeared" on her and he never even called after her surgery. She also accused him of making up excuses and lying.

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"Michael is just acting like an ass, and honestly, maybe Michael is not for her. Maybe he is, you know, playing her -- and Mama doesn't deserve that," Skyla lamented.

Angela felt like Michael didn't "give a sh-t" about her and so something was going on. Angela intended to get to the bottom of the problem, especially because her trust in Michael was "delicate" to begin with.

"If I can't trust you, I want no part of you. And all the sneaky sh-t he's doing this time in our relationship might be [irreparable], that's why I'm going to get somebody to [hack] his phone. And if I'm right, he hasn't seen the wrath of me yet!" Angela revealed.

Angela met with an IT specialist asking to put a GPS tracker on Michael's phone, but she was told that would be illegal.

Angela learned, however, she could find out Michael's "live location" on WhatsApp, the forum in which Angela and Michael often communicate when they are in different countries.

Angela then called Michael and called him "a nasty son of a b-tch" in front of the IT specialist. Michael yelled back at his wife and told her to never talk to him that way.

Angela yelled about how Michael had "conned" her into marrying him, and she said if Michael continued to act this way, he'd be staying in Nigeria forever. Angela repeatedly called Michael "a son of a b-tch," and Michael replied, "Who do you think you are? Are you God?!"

"I didn't get married to have these problems. We don't need to be married, do we? If he was in America, we'd be divorced," Angela confessed to the IT specialist.

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She added, "I never thought in my wildest dreams Michael would be treating me like this. Maybe Michael didn't marry me for the right reasons, because ever since we got married, he's treated me different than he did before we got married."

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Angela didn't think Michael cared about her at all and so she FaceTimed him again and accused him of mistreating her for two months and being "such a child."

Angela told Michael that she didn't want to be married to him at this moment and had lost all romantic feelings for him.

"You need to be with someone who is stupid and desperate, and you are an idiot, you are a joke, and you are not for me!" Angela shouted. "I should have left you when I found out your penis wasn't what you said it was. You lied from the beginning!"

Angela didn't allow Michael to speak, but he insisted he's not a baby.

"I'm done!" Angela vented. "We're not getting nowhere. He doesn't give a sh-t at this moment, and you know what? I don't either!"

Angela told Michael that their relationship was about done, and then Michael suddenly asked about her health. Michael said he had called his wife many times, but she just laughed at him.

Michael apologized, but that wasn't enough for Angela, who called her husband "a punk." Angela said Michael pretended to be a nice and sweet guy and she didn't want to be married anymore.

Angela told Michael that she was setting him free and their relationship had ended, and Michael surprisingly replied by saying, "I'm not going to beg you."

Angela claimed Michael had put her through "hell" and so she was ready to cut her ties. She was convinced Michael would come to regret his actions and said she wasn't going to allow her husband to keep kicking her when she's down.


So are Michael and Angela still together now or has the 90 Day Fiance couple broken up?

Angela and Michael got married on January 27, 2020 in Nigeria, but the wedding bliss apparently didn't last long.

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Angela has admitted her long-distance relationship with Michael has been "hell."

"At one point, I was telling Michael, 'You've changed since we got married and we're not even living together yet. Don't take that for granted because there's always a damn divorce court right around the corner,'" Angela recalled in an April 2021 interview with Entertainment Tonight.

"I feel like he married me and then he [changed]," she added.

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Like viewers have seen on the show, Angela alleged Michael wasn't supportive after she underwent a gastric sleeve reduction, liposuction on her back, and a breast reduction in August 2020.

The surgeon also addressed two hernias she had and so Angela was under general anesthesia for five to six hours.

Angela, who has lost about 100 pounds since her procedures, said her grandchildren were her "main support" through the long recovery process, which really caused some real tension between Michael and herself.

"I can tell you he was a butt," Angela admitted.

"He was a total ass. I can tell you a little bit, that I was in this alone... You know, I did my boobs and he loved my boobs. I don't know if it was just him not being a part of it because he was over there [in Nigeria] at the time or what, but we went through it."

Angela confessed divorce "definitely" crossed her mind during that time of struggle and she even discussed breaking up with Michael with her lawyer, who gave some "good advice."

"I told my lawyer, 'I'm definitely not going to put up with this. If he's like this all the way over there, then what's he going to be like here [in the United States?]'" Angela lamented.

Angela suggested Michael has a way of bringing out the worst in her.

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"Michael always gives me a reason to explode. I think he likes it when I get upset because it shows I care about him in some crazy way," Angela explained.

"He put me through hell while I was healing and it's all real. The struggle was real!"

But despite the obstacles they've faced as a married couple, Angela confirmed she and Michael are still together and working things out.

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Angela recently posted an Instagram Story that showed her FaceTiming with Michael while she was out for drinks, and she posted photos and videos with Michael on Instagram in early May 2021.

Angela captions many of her posts of Michael with red-heart emojis.

For example, Angela posted a photo with Michael and her mother-in-law to wish Michael's mom a Happy Mother's Day, and she also recently shared a side-by-side TikTok video of Michael and Angela dancing to the same song.

In addition, Michael's bio on his own Instagram account reads, "I LOVE MY WIFE ANGELA," and his profile picture features his wife.

Angela told ET that she hopes Michael can move to the United States soon, especially since the international travel ban has been lifted amid the coronavirus pandemic.

"I'm hoping and praying. We've got my lawyer looking into it and I've contacted Congress," Angela revealed.

"Hopefully we'll see what's taking so long because we've been waiting for three-and-a-half years... We're going to have an American wedding [once he arrives]!"

Angela is also still considering having a child with Michael, although she insisted she won't consider carrying a baby herself.

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"I know in my heart once Michael gets here, he has a way of getting me to do things. So I'm not going to say it's out the window," Angela shared of becoming a mom again.

She elaborated, "I don't want to raise a baby alone... We'll talk about it more once he gets here and we'll go from there."

The reality TV star joked she still needs an egg in order to have a baby.

"I'm still after [my daughter] Skyla's eggs!... We'll figure it out, but right now, I want to enjoy my weight loss," Angela noted.

One thing is for certain though: Angela said she doesn't want to "tote the baby."

"Of course if he wants it, I want it for him, but we'll figure it out. I definitely won't tote it. I've come to my senses. I am too old to tote a baby," Angela explained.

"And if anybody could tote it, I know I could, but why would I want to lose all this weight and do that? We'll definitely do a surrogate and hopefully I can get some blood-related egg."

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About The Author: Elizabeth Kwiatkowski
Elizabeth Kwiatkowski is Associate Editor of Reality TV World and has been covering the reality TV genre for more than a decade.