90 Day Fiance: The Other Way featured Jen lashing out at Rishi for lying to his family about their engagement, Nicole returning to her old problems with Mahmoud in Egypt, Debbie drafting a prenuptial agreement for Oussama, and Kris shocking Jeymi with her health issues during the Season 4 episode that aired Sunday night on TLC.

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The show's returning couple, Daniele, a 42-year-old from New York, NY, and Yohan, a 32-year-old from the Dominican Republic, first appeared on Season 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Love in Paradise.

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Fresh from the 90 Day Fiance spinoff set in the Caribbean, Daniele left her home in New York and attempted to convince Yohan they should spend the rest of their lives in the Dominican Republic.

In addition to Daniele and Yohan, Season 4 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way also stars Jen, a 46-year-old from Stilwell, OK, and Rishi, a 32-year-old from Jaipur, India as well as Kris, a 40-year-old from Haleyville, AL, and Jeymi, a 30-year-old from Venezuela who currently resides in Bogota, Colombia.

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The series also stars Gabriel, a 32-year-old from Margate, FL, and Isabel from Colombia; Nicole, a 38-year-old food delivery driver from Los Angeles, CA, and Mahmoud, a 26-year-old from Cairo, Egypt; and Debbie, a 67-year-old from Sugar Hill, GA, and Oussama from Morocco.

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way follows American citizens moving to or living in foreign countries for the sake of love and their future spouses and experiencing culture shock.

Below is what happened on Episode 4 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way's fourth season.


JEN and RISHI

Jen had arrived in India, and she was about to take a six-hour taxi to Jaipur, where she was going to reunite with Rishi.

Jen said chemistry faded in her past relationships and so she was worried she wouldn't find Rishi as attractive as before, or that he would lose attraction to her. Jen was feeling scared and nervous about seeing her fiance again and marrying a man whom she hadn't seen in person in two years.


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Meanwhile, Rishi's mother kept looking for a bride for him to enter an arranged marriage. Rishi hadn't told his mother about his relationship with Jen because he claimed she wouldn't understand, mainly because of the cultural and language barrier.

Rishi, however, thought Jen cared about his feelings and always supported him. He therefore thought she was worth the risk.

Rishi told his mother that he was going to the gym when he was actually going to meet up with Jen. He said he felt bad about lying to his mother but simply wasn't ready to tell her that he was engaged yet.

Jen and Rishi had a "magical" kiss when they saw each other again and Jen was pleasantly surprised by the "huge" furnished apartment with high ceilings Rishi had picked out for them. Rishi also wrote "I [heart] U" in rose petals on the bed, which she thought was extremely sweet and romantic.

Jen also confirmed she was "definitely" still attracted to her "good-looking" man, and they unwound by sipping on some alcoholic beverages.

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Jen, however, determined she wasn't ready to spend the night with Rishi. She wanted to take things slowly and become familiar with Rishi again. Doubts and concerns from Jen's friends and family were apparently in the back of her mind.

Jen asked Rishi if he'd be willing to wait until marriage to have sex, and he was a bit disappointed because he had been hoping Jen would "want him in the same way."

Jen's visa was only good for four months, so she didn't think Rishi was going to have to wait too long. But in the meantime, she wanted Rishi to tell his family about her.

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After her first night in India, Jen complained to a friend how her apartment was very cold and there was no toilet paper in the bathroom. She also had no towels or blankets when Rishi was supposed to make sure she'd have "the basics."


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Rishi brought Jen a small heater the next morning, which she appreciated, but he also brought her yoga mats. Instead of focusing on what she needed and lacked in the apartment, Rishi just wanted to do yoga with Jen, which slightly annoyed her.

Rishi thought doing yoga with Jen would build trust, especially when she relied on him to hold her off the ground or pick her up. Jen found the session to be very intimate.

Jen then asked Rishi flat out if he had hooked up with any other women during the two years of them being apart. Jen didn't want to ruin their good vibe, but she also felt the need to address her fear.

Rishi insisted he had been working 16 hours a day and so he was not available for anyone.

"So for the record, you have not hooked up with anybody in the last two years? And you haven't chatted with people whom you could potentially hook up with?" Jen asked.


"No, I got a lot of [compliments] from my online clients, but I didn't have time for it to become a relationship or something. It was a healthy conversation between two people. So it was just like that," Rishi explained.

Jen decided that she could trust Rishi and things were moving forward in a positive direction. She felt that Rishi was committed to her and that their romance was on the right track.

"If you're lying to me, we can't be together. I'm giving you an opportunity to be 100 percent honest, and if I found out you're not, that's probably worse than you having had sex with somebody else," Jen explained.

"Okay," Rishi replied.

"You better not be lying or I'll kill you!" Jen joked.

Rishi said having his honesty and integrity questioned was difficult for him because he had been faithful to her for the past two years. He was also worried about telling Jen what his family had been up to in trying to find him an arranged marriage.


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Jen and Rishi then went shopping for clothes so that Jen could have a nice outfit to wear when she met his family as "a friend" the following day. Jen was okay with being introduced as Rishi's friend for the time being, but she didn't want him to lie to his parents for long.

Jen had met Rishi's family at a wedding once before, but she was prepared to treat this like a casual encounter. Jen therefore turned down multiple long dresses that were beautiful with sequins and embroidery -- but "over the top" according to Rishi's fiancee.

Jen asked Rishi why he couldn't just introduce her as his fiancee since they had already been engaged for two years.

"Maybe they don't let me out from the house," Rishi said.

Jen burst into laughter, and Rishi clarified how house arrest was a real possibility. Jen called the possible scenario "absurd," and she suddenly became very tired of lying about their relationship.

"They may push me into a different direction, like an arranged marriage or something like that," Rishi told Jen.


"Go for it! I'm kind of beyond caring right now," Jen lamented.

"Why don't you understand this? I can't be a bad guy," Rishi said.

"Really? Because you kind of seem like an assh-le right now," Jen fired back.

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Rishi explained he was a "key" person in his family and so he was responsible for his loved ones. Rishi said he wanted to introduce Jen in a good way and do right by his family.

But then Jen snapped that she didn't want to meet his family until he was going to be honest with them.


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Jen told the cameras that Rishi had told her years prior that his family accepted the fact he didn't want to enter an arranged marriage. Jen therefore felt lied to, and she stormed away from Rishi upset and frustrated.

Rishi explained to the cameras that introducing Jen as his fiancee to his family would "ruin everything," but Jen was left thinking if she had made a mistake by uprooting her life for a man who couldn't even tell his family about their relationship.

"I wonder if I sacrificed too much to be with him," Jen lamented in a confessional.


ISABEL and GABRIEL

Isabel was shown driving to the airport in Medellin with her sister Sara and Miguel to pick up Gabriel. The couple hugged and kissed, and Sara and Miguel also hugged welcomed Gabriel with open arms and hugged him tightly.

Gabriel gushed about having "whole freakin family" who loved him and didn't view him as a trans person. Gabriel then revealed he had Isabel's name tattooed on his arm and a name on his back -- of another woman he had dated before -- covered up.

Isabel was overjoyed and told the cameras how she was going to have a fairytale relationship.


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But Gabriel had a lot to do. Not only did he have to tell Isabel's parents that he's trans and hope for their acceptance, but he also had to propose marriage to Isabel so that he could stay in the country.

Isabel then had Gabriel try some local food, and they talked about the sacrifices they had made for each other thus far. While Isabel moved farther away from her family for Gabriel, he pointed out how he had moved to a totally different country for her.

Isabel admitted it would've been easier to just keep the fact Gabriel is trans from her family because they wouldn't have noticed, but Gabriel didn't want to keep any secrets from Isabel's mother and family.

"Maybe my father will be the difficult one," Isabel confessed.

This was the first time Gabriel had heard Isabel's family may have a problem with him being trans, and he called the situation "pretty scary." However, he insisted that it was important to tell them and be honest because he loved her family.

Isabel told Gabriel that it was his decision because it was his body and his life.


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"I want to marry Isabel, but if her parents don't accept me, then it's like, 'Is this a reason why she doesn't want to be with me?'" Gabriel questioned.


JEYMI and KRIS

Kris had moved to Colombia, and she said being with Jeymi was everything she had imagined and more. The couple loved waking up next to each other in bed, and Kris confirmed they had no problem with their sexual chemistry.

Jeymi also called the sex "amazing" and gushed about how she had butterflies in her stomach. She also couldn't wait to introduce Kris to people as her "girlfriend."

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Since Jeymi had paid to move and rent their new apartment, which was $100 over budget for Kris, Kris said she wanted to pay for her bride's wedding dress and shoes. Jeymi said she knew Kris would like the apartment and that's why she stretched the budget a bit.

Jeymi worked as an administrative assistant at a company that specializes in trading stocks, and she also had 30 days of vacation built up. Jeymi was therefore going to spend some quality time with Kris.


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Kris said she was happy to pay the bills but hoped their finances would work out and not be too tight.

As Jeymi and Kris walked around Kris' new city, a trio of people yelled out, "Love is love!" Kris realized she wouldn't have to hide her relationship, and she felt much more accepted and welcome than she had felt in Alabama.

Kris then picked up bubble gum toothpaste -- since she's allergic to mint -- as well as prescriptions from a pharmacy. Kris had previously broken her neck in a car accident, and so she said she dealt with pain on a daily basis. Her neck pain was apparently very bad after the flight.

Kris had opted out of a surgery that would cost $100,000 and require metal bars to hold her neck in place for over a year, and so she was dealing with chronic neck pain for 21 years. She refused to have the surgery until she couldn't turn her head or deal with the pain anymore.

Jeymi said the was the first time Kris had ever mentioned this surgery to her and it was a lot to process. Kris explained to Jeymi that she'd eventually need the surgery but she wanted to hold off as long as possible.

This was a lot for Jeymi to take in, especially considering the women had just met in-person.


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NICOLE and MAHMOUD

Nicole was happy to start her life with Mahmoud in Egypt, but she was also annoyed because he had complained about her clothes in the first five minutes of them reuniting.

She didn't want to fight with her husband in the airport or in front of his cousin, who had offered to drive them home from the airport.

Nicole had lived by herself for 10 years and so she was worried about Mahmoud's place being overcrowded since he lived with his mother and his siblings came and go from the house all the time.

Nicole said Mahmoud's family was wonderful and extremely loving but she was going to need some space.

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Mahmoud just hoped Nicole was going to stay for good this time and wasn't going to change her mind about returning to the United States.


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The group then ate fried potatoes, which Nicole said she loved but sometimes made her sick.

Nicole's sister-in-law Fatima was from China and had adjusted very well, and Nicole wondered how she was able to do that so easily. Fatima, for example, wore a hijab and covered her body all the time, and she was also learning Arabic.

Nicole quickly realized the old problems she dealt with in Egypt were back. The house was loud and chaotic, and the family expected her to adapt and be more like them.

Nicole and Mahmoud had promised to work through their problems in Egypt. She acknowledged that discussing their differences was going to be uncomfortable but also something they needed to do.

Mahmoud said he didn't want Nicole to leave him again and so he hoped she'd be able to handle her new lifestyle. Nicole told Mahmoud that the rules of his religion were "so rigid" and she came from a very different background.

Mahmoud explained how he had grown up with women covering their bodies and he loved his wife, and so he didn't want other men looking at Nicole and thinking she's sexy. Mahmoud said once Nicole understood that, their dynamic would get better.


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Mahmoud thought it was a sign of respect, but Nicole didn't feel good about Mahmoud "forcing" her to dress differently.

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"I said 'yes' to things I thought I could handle, and I tried so hard -- and I'm still trying to fulfill his expectations. But clothes have always just been a very important form of personal expression for me, and once I experienced following the rules, I realized, 'I'm not being true to myself,'" Nicole said in a confessional.

Mahmoud said he didn't want to talk about this subject in order to avoid a fight, but Nicole said they were going to have to fix the problem eventually and talk about it.

Nicole wanted to dress the way she wanted to, or at least compromise and meet in the middle.

Nicole just wanted Mahmoud to accept her for who she is.


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DEBBIE and OUSSAMA

Debbie was moving to Morocco in a week and planned to marry him shortly after her arrival. Her son Julian was afraid that Oussama was after her for her money, and so Debbie decided to get a prenuptial agreement before her wedding in order to protect her children.

Julian thought Debbie was taking "an unnecessary risk," and he didn't want to see her get hurt or taken advantage of.

Debbie and Julian then sat down with a lawyer so they could discuss the prenup, which was going to protect Debbie's rights and assets. The lawyer assured Julian that Debbie's assets would be protected as long as they're in the U.S.

Debbie wished Julian would be able to move to America, but she didn't think they'd have a shot at a K-1 visa due to their age difference. Julian told the lawyer that Oussama was "a kid" without a full-time job, and Debbie pointed out how he was a farm person.

Julian also said Oussama was manipulative, and the lawyer was surprised Oussama was only 24 years old and definitely saw some red flags.

Debbie asked what she could do if her relationship was a fairy tale years down the line and she wanted to change her mind about sharing her finances, and the lawyer advised Debbie to never amend the prenup but rather open a joint bank account that Oussama could pull from.


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Debbie's question led Julian to believe that Debbie was also providing for and supporting Oussama and that she had been lying to her son about it. Julian said he didn't trust Oussama "not one little bit."

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